I've had many conversations with clients lately who
describe themselves as "stuck." "Nothing is happening" and
"I don't know what I want," are frequent complaints. It's
been my observation that quite often the words and phrases
above really translate to, "I'm scared. I'm afraid I'll
make a mistake and things will be worse than they are now.
I'll just decide to stay where I am until I'm forced to do
something different."
What should you do when you feel as if your life is on hold?
BEGIN TO GATHER INFORMATION You may be putting the
proverbial "cart before the horse." Before you make any
decision, you need to have information. Think about a goal
you wish to achieve. Perhaps it's a move, a new job, a
skill you'd like to learn. Tony Robbins once observed,
"You see, in life, lots of people know what to do, but few
people actually do what they know. Knowing is not enough!
You must take action." What are three things you could do
this month that would give you information about your
interest? Perhaps you could take a class, read a book,
talk to someone who has a similar goal. It doesn't have to
be a huge risk. When you commit to action, your intuition
can begin to guide you. It puts options, possibility and
hope in your path.
PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT YOU TELL YOURSELF Writer Serge Kahili
King notes that, "All thoughts, words, images, prayers,
blessings, and deeds are listened to by All That Is." What
goes on in your mind? If the bulk of your thoughts are
negative, it's very difficult for your intuition to get
through to offer help. Begin to ask, "Is there another way
of looking at this situation that will make me feel
better?" Or think of someone you admire and ask, "What
would ____ do?" When you can begin to focus on the
positive side of things, the Universe can easily present
you with opportunities that will lead you to your hopes and
dreams.
HAVE COURAGE Have you ever talked yourself out of something
because you felt scared? You may be surprised to know that
nearly everyone feels anxious before they try something
new. Think back on your own life. How did you feel before
you took your current job or before you moved into your
present home? You probably felt uncomfortable for a while
until, over time, the new became familiar. Whenever you
make a change in your life, however large or small, you're
out of your comfort zone for a while. Your intuition will
always nudge you to try new things. That's how you grow
spiritually. It's also how you gain self-confidence and
self-esteem. What is one small thing you can try this
month that has you a little scared? Perhaps it is asking
someone you admire out to lunch or speaking up in a meeting
to share a comment or ask a question. Be daring. Have
courage. Be willing to move just outside your comfort
zone. You'll be surprised at the world of possibilities
that open up to you as you begin to take risks.
KNOW THAT YOU LIVE IN A LOVING UNIVERSE I see many clients
when they are struggling, in massive indecision, or have
just lost sight of their dreams. I've found that there is
an assumption from many people on a spiritual path that if
you're doing it "right" you will feel wonderful all the
time. You'll be in perfect health, have a relationship
with your soul mate that's heaven sent (and you never
argue!) Money will flow from heaven at all times and your
children will be perfect and well adjusted. Well dream on
. . . It ain't necessarily so. There is wise guidance
available to you at all times, supporting you, loving you
and encouraging your growth. We are all here to learn love,
compassion, forgiveness and faith. Sometimes this means
that you face difficulties and challenges. As you face
these and overcome them, you become strong in the weak or
broken places. Know that you live in a loving Universe.
© 2008 Lynn Robinson, M.Ed. All rights reserved in all
media.
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Lynn A. Robinson is a bestselling author, speaker and
leading expert on the topic of intuition. She's a
sought-after consultant who uses her own highly-honed
intuitive skills to provide businesses with accurate,
on-the-spot insights into goals, decisions and strategies.
Her latest book is TRUST YOUR GUT: How the Power of
Intuition Can Grow Your Business. 800-925-4002 or
Lynn@LynnRobinson.com http://www.LynnRobinson.com
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