Have you watched The Matrix recently? Remember the scene
where Neo is offered the red pill or the blue pill?
For those of you who are not Matrix fans, here's the
synopsis. Computers have taken over the world and are
using humans as living batteries to power their existence.
The computers found that humans waste away without
something to live for, so they plug the humans into The
Matrix-a computer simulation of everyday life in the late
1990's, complete with cubicles, rush hour, and the endless
rat race.
The only problem with the Matrix is that there are a small
percentage of people who feel in their soul that this
existence is a lie. Neo, the main character, is one of
these, and starts searching for answers.The pivotal scene
unfolds. Neo must choose whether to take the blue pill,
and wake up in his bed the next morning to blindly continue
his life in the Matrix, or take the red pill, and learn the
truth.
My oldest son is finishing his junior year in high school,
and he will soon be facing that same pivotal choice. Life
with the blue pill is very appealing. Get a good job, start
a family, live in the suburbs, work for 45 years, and
retire comfortably. He would never be fabulously wealthy,
but he would do okay. Our educational system is designed to
mold our young people for this future. After all, we need
good workers, right?
But what Matrix would he be living under? Would he be
voluntarily conforming to the artificial boundaries of life
in corporate America?
When I was in his shoes, I didn't know there were other
options. I pursued the path of getting a good education as
an engineer, getting a good job, and...surprise, surprise!
Life was not easy. I could barely afford to buy a house in
the suburbs, commuted an hour and a half each way to work,
and never had time to spend with my kids. I felt like the
adults in my life had sold me a lie.
I grew up in a small town in Montana. My parents ran a
gift store and greenhouse, and had a small house on 40
acres of land just outside of town. They struggled trying
to make a living in a small town, but I lived the ideal
life of a small boy...fishing, hunting, and enjoying the
outdoors.
My parents wanted more for me. I dutifully set out for
life in the big city, not because I had any desire to live
there, but because I had been told this was what I should
do. My parents truly felt this was the best path.
About ten years ago, I chose to take the red pill. I
packed up my family in a U-Haul, and moved across the state
to define my own existence. I gave up the long commute and
big city life for a something else. Now, I work from my
home office, and have the freedom to structure my life how
I want to live. Instead of heading out for the freeway, I
spent this morning with my youngest son, having morning
Donuts with Dad at his elementary school. I've been to
every one of my kids' basketball games, band concerts, and
track meets this year. I hunt and fish with my boys, and
camp with the Boy Scouts. Life is good.
If there is one gift I want to give my son, it is this
truth. He does not need to be contained by someone else's
Matrix. He does not need to conform to another person's
ideal of how he should live his life. He can choose.
If you have a teenager, make sure you talk to him or her
about how they want to live their life. Instead of asking
them what they want to do, help them figure out how they
want to live.
Do they want to live in the city, country, or somewhere
in-between? Would they prefer an 8-to-5 job, with weekends
and holidays off, or do they want a little more
flexibility? Are they willing to work for themselves, and
possibly give up vacations and holidays for a while in
order to have more later? What kind of house do they want
to live in? What car do they want to drive?
Now, once these questions are answered, what kind of income
do they need to create in order to live their life how they
want to live? What education will they need to get to make
this happen? What skills do they need to learn? What
contacts do they need to make?
Before your teenager succumbs to the pull of the blue pill,
give them a wake up call. The truth is that he or she has
more opportunities and options now than ever before. They
can have the life of their dreams.
Don't get me wrong. Choosing the red pill has its price.
The blue pill goes down ever so much easier. After all, the
blue pill is the normal path. Following in the footsteps
of the mindless masses is such a no-brainer. A small part
of me knows that life could be easier for my children if
they did not know they have other options. Conformity
could be rewarded by comfort and ease.
But the possibilities of the red pill...
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Todd Jensen, "The Profit Engineer", has helped hundreds of
business owners make their business more successful and
profitable. For tips and strategies on how to boost your
business success as well as increase your profits,
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