QUOTE: "Nothing can stop the man with the right mental
attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help
the man with the wrong mental attitude." - Thomas Jefferson
You may be working your tail off to market your business
and yet you're still wondering why it hasn't "happened"
yet. I've seen this happen thousands of times. An
entrepreneur is seemingly working HARD to get clients,
working like a dog to bring in some good in-come and yet,
the results just aren't showing up. It's like fighting an
uphill battle and often seems like it's not really worth
it, or worse, like something's wrong with us.
But the real battle that's going on isn't with the
marketing, it's that something's wrong on the INSIDE. If
there's a struggle on the OUTSIDE, it simply means that one
exists on the INSIDE, and it's based on our conditioning.
You see, how we are conditioned affects virtually every
aspect of our life: our relationships, health, finances,
success, even Client Attraction.
If you're experiencing struggle or results aren't happening
fast enough, it just means there's an inner conflict that
affects how you think and feel, as well as your beliefs and
fears. It's the battle between your conscious and your
unconscious.
"When your conscious mind thinks you want something but
your subconscious mind thinks you don't deserve it (or any
other limiting belief), you will fail at getting what you
want. Instead you will actually attract what your
subconscious feels is right for you. In order to attract
what you prefer, your conscious and subconscious have to be
in agreement." - Joe Vitale
If there's an exterior struggle, like clients not coming in
fast enough or the fact that money is REALLY tight, then it
means that PART of you wants something (your conscious) and
PART of you doesn't (your subconscious). The bad news is,
your subconscious has veto power over your conscious,
always.
The GOOD news is, once you clear the interior struggle, the
results you want happen almost instantly. That's what's
happened to me in the past year or two and continues to
happen. The more I match the inside with what I "say" I
want, the more opportunities come my way, the more in-come
shows up and the easier it all is. And I mean really easy.
(And before you start going "there", just remember that I'm
no different than you. Once you work on your own Inner Game
of Client Attraction, you too can experience the same
results. That's what we'll do together in Miami in
September at my 'Mindset and Income Acceleration Retreat'.
More details to follow soon.)
It's not about working harder! If you want different
results, you must change your subconscious beliefs and get
clear on the fears that are not congruent with what you SAY
you want. Here's a few of the hundreds that I've come up
with, based on a survey I did:
- "They won't pay for this"
- "I don't know enough"
- "If I get bigger, they'll find out I'm a fraud"
- "I'm a failure"
- "If I get too many clients, I'll get overwhelmed"
- "I'm not worth it"
- "I can't have it all"
- "My expertise is common sense"
- Etc.
If this is what's going on in your subconscious, you're
essentially driving with the parking brake on, and we've
got to do something about that if you want to begin seeing
different results. Otherwise, you'll continue to push
really hard, work REALLY hard and not see the results you
say you want.
Your Assignment:
If you want to succeed, get rid of this GUNK and SLUDGE
inside. The key is to become AWARE of your which fears and
subconscious beliefs are sabotaging you on a daily basis,
like some of the ones listed above. Once you're clear on
them, figure out where they came from, process them and
then release them. This will immediately change your
behaviors, increase your in-come and new opportunities will
start showing up, ones that you never expected. You'll
wonder why you struggled for so long.
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Fabienne Fredrickson, The Client Attraction Mentor, is
founder of the Client Attraction System™ and
http://www.ClientAttraction.com , the proven step-by-step
program to attract more clients, make more m'oney being
self-employed, while having more time off to enjoy it all.
To receive your F.R.E.E. Audio CD by mail and get weekly
how-to articles on attracting more clients, visit
http://www.ClientAttraction.com .
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