Each day the world is at work. Work is a means of
survival. Your income pays for food, shelter, and other
necessities. Work is also a place of power where you have a
wealth of opportunities to increase your self-knowledge and
self-esteem. At work, you can grow by embracing the
lessons about power that are available to you. I am a
personal and professional coach. In my work with clients, I
see them constantly presented with situations and
interactions in the workplace that involve power. One may
have a boss who underestimates their abilities and
frequently belittles them. Another may find they are
frequently out of step, as if everyone else is playing a
different game. Another may find work running their life.
They may be way out of balance and everything and everyone
around them is affected. When a client is in such a
situation, I work with them to look beyond the surface and
ask what they can learn from the situation.
You can do the same. If you have problems at work, put the
focus squarely on you. This way, you immediately take
control. This does not mean you can control others'
actions, but there is power in commanding your own life.
FOCUS ON YOUR POWER AT WORK
The key to prosperity and fulfillment at work is reclaiming
your personal power. It is who you are, not what an
organization or society want you to become that is the
means for creating the work life and success you seek.
Personal power at work is the ability to perceive your
environment and the players in it from your own, unique
point of view and to act from your center as you make
choices and decisions.
Perceiving your environment requires an ability to see
things as they really are. You must understand the game you
are playing in. You can't succeed at baseball, playing by
football's rules. What are the rules of the game that you
are in? If you don't know, start observing your workplace.
What is the culture of your organization? What goals are
focused on? Who gets rewarded? Then, turn your focus on
you. Are your skills a fit with the game you are in? Are
you playing by the rules? Do you like the rules? I'm not
recommending mindless conformity here. It's about
awareness. You have to know the game before you can play it
effectively. Each of us has our own individual voice in
the world. To find that voice and express it is the meaning
of fulfillment. Finding your voice is not an easy task.
But, it is a journey worth taking. For as you express your
unique voice in the world, all kinds of possibilities open
up and you can fly as you never have before. What is your
destiny? This question confounds many. The clues to your
destiny lie in your inspiration. Finding your destiny is
not just about you. The world needs your voice. Won't the
world be a better place with the real you in it? Finding
your destiny is a form of service - to yourself, to those
around you and to the world.
Many things at work interfere with the ability to act from
your center. How many times do negative emotions,
insecurities, fatigue or misperceptions unfavorably cloud
the decisions you have to make? The stress and time demands
you face make it easy to lose your focus. If you strive for
balance among the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual
aspects of your life, you will increase your ability to act
from your center. Also, it is important to acknowledge that
you have choice in every situation. Choice keeps the power
in your hands. There may be consequences that flow from a
choice you make, but no one has the power to take that
choice from you.
EXERCISING YOUR POWER AT WORK
When you face a difficult situation in the workplace, ask
yourself:
• How are you responding to the situation?
• Is your response based on facts? Is it purely emotional?
• What is in your power to change?
• What is the particular learning for you here? How can it
help you grow?
Once you've answered these questions thoughtfully, you are
ready to develop your response to the situation. Think out
what you want to do, what the possible consequences of your
actions are, what actions you will take. From here, go
forward. Value the learning from the situation. Acknowledge
the opportunity it presents to you.
Taking situations into your own hands and responding to
them increases your personal power. You can have fun with
this. You can grow. You can become the arbiter of your own
life rather than a target for the hapless games of others.
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Ann Vanino is a personal coach, trainer and writer
specializing in helping people find fulfillment in their
work lives. Ann's book, Leadership on Trial: Lessons from
The Apprentice offers readers seven leadership lessons.
Learn more at http://www.MovingForward.net and contact her
at Ann@MovingForward.net or 661-944-6329.