Monday, October 1, 2007

How to Retain Women in Your Organization, and Support Their Success

How to Retain Women in Your Organization, and Support Their Success
What group makes up half of our population, yet only 15.6%
of corporate officers in Fortune 500 companies? What group
holds half of all management and professional positions in
the United States, but less than 3% of the CEO positions in
the Fortune 500? Women!

Moreover, studies have shown that companies with the
highest representation of women (top 10%) on their top
management teams had better financial performance than did
the group with the lowest women's representation. Women
purchase 83% of all products and services in the United
States, so it makes sense that your employees reflect your
customer base. In order to be successful, companies need to
recognize what they are doing with respect to women, where
they're succeeding and where they need to improve.

What you can do. You can play a significant role in
conveying the importance of the topic, assess what is being
done well at your organization and what needs to be
improved, and work toward implementing the necessary
changes.

In my work helping women succeed in business, I've found
that two kinds of barriers exist: one is external, male
dominated organizations with a subconscious bias against
women; the other is internal, how women themselves operate
in the corporate world. Much of this is based on gender
socialization in the United States. Obviously, there are
exceptions to all of these situations. But there has been
significant research done, and I've witnessed plenty of it
in my fifteen-plus years in corporate America. Corporations
need to pay attention to the barriers to minimize them,
thereby maximizing their success, and women need to be
aware of how they position themselves.

Bringing up gender biases in the workforce is a touchy
subject. Some perceive it's casting women as the victim.
However, if we don't admit it can exist, it can't be
addressed. In her book Necessary Dreams, Anne Fels cites a
significant amount of research that shows women continue to
receive less recognition for their accomplishments than
men. This starts at pre-school and happens with both male
and female evaluators. For example, in one study, two
groups of people were asked to evaluate particular items,
such as articles, paintings, and resumes. The names
attached to the items were either clearly male or female,
but reversed for the two groups. So, what one group
believed was created by a man, the other believed was
created by a woman. Regardless of the items, when they were
credited to a man, they were rated higher than when
credited to a woman. This discrepancy was consistent across
male and female evaluators. What you can do. Create
objective standards for success at your organization. Make
success transparent, including performance measurements and
competencies. When standards are objective, women succeed.

Another result of male-dominated organizations is that many
are structured on the idea that the employee (a man) had
someone at home (a wife) taking care of the children and
house. This is rarely the case anymore. The fact that women
still bear a disproportionate burden of childcare, house
care and eldercare results in an additional stress on them
in the workplace, and often results in what has been termed
"opting out". See "Off-Ramps and On-Ramps" by Sylvia Ann
Hewlett and Carolyn Buck Luce in the Harvard Business
Review (March 2005). It offers a comprehensive overview of
that phenomenon and what companies can do to reverse the
brain drain of women leaving corporate America, and help
women when they are ready to reenter it.

What you can do. Support flexible workplaces, put informal
structures in place to stay in contact with strong people
who have left your company, and make sure someone contacts
them on a regular basis.

Talking about internal barriers that women create for
themselves can bring up a different kind of resistance, as
people perceive it as "blaming the victim." Instead this
approach empowers women to take control of their destinies
by finding techniques that increase their success.

Finding a voice in corporate America is still a big issue
for women. The range of issues includes not feeling
comfortable speaking in public (especially when being the
only woman in a group) to feeling very comfortable to
speaking in public, but not having your ideas taken
seriously because you are a woman. In a recent Catalyst
report about women on Board of Directors, a woman director
confirmed that "they're predisposed against hearing you
because you've got on a skirt."

In a recent focus groups of professional corporate women,
one woman stated it well when she said "If I'm 99% sure,
I'll talk like I'm 95% sure, as opposed to men who talk
like they are 150% sure even when they are not. We need
more confidence in our communication."

There are ways of communicating that decrease the speaker's
credibility, which I call "power sappers." They are more
common in women and include the following:

• When stating an opinion, qualifying it too much ahead of
time. For example, leading off with negating phrases, like
"I am not the expert on this," or "I could be wrong on
this".
• Saying "maybe" or "I think" even when making a definite
statement.
• Using a lot of "ums" or other fillers in speech.
• Ending sentences with "... OK?"
• Saying "I'm sorry" when it's not necessary.
• Talking too much when somebody does not want to hear all
of the details.
• Phrasing statements as questions by pitching your voice
up at the end of the sentence.

Women often fail to speak up if they don't think they have
the precise answer or have something significant to say.
The result can be that they don't say much and they lose
credibility. I have seen examples of this even on company
boards of directors and it results in the woman failing.

What you can do. Become aware of these phenomenons and
point them out when they are occurring (both to women and
men). Mentor the women in your organization who are not
communicating effectively.

You can have a significant impact on how women succeed in
organization by communicating the benefits, becoming aware
of the obstacles, and putting action steps in place to
address problems or take advantage of opportunities. This
is not something to do simply because it is the right thing
to do, but because it is good for business. It will pay off
for your company in terms of increased retention,
productivity and morale. And, on the bottom line.


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Kerrie Halmi of Halmi Performance Consulting specializes in
increasing women's success in business through speaking,
coaching and facilitation. Kerrie has over fifteen years
of experience in the Human Resources field
with such clients as eBay, Bank of America and Kaiser. She
received her MBA from the University of Michigan and is
certified in coaching with Corporate Coach University
International.
See
http://www.halmiperformance.com

Create your Personal Marketing Plan with the Know-Like-Trust Principle

Create your Personal Marketing Plan with the Know-Like-Trust Principle
Some years ago, I had a good friend who was a minister, and
every Sunday he would scan the congregation, checking to
see how many people were there. He took it personally when
people didn't show up, and he was correct in his assumption
that people came to see him and hear him preach. Whatever
else they felt about that church, HE was the church. When
he left, a lot of people stopped attending. Just like
ministers, when you have a professional practice, YOU are
the practice. People associate the practice with you, and
they come in to the practice because of you.

Whether you intend to associate, or to work as an
independent contractor renting space from someone, or to
start your own solo practice, you need to think about how
you will market yourself to people in your community so
they will come to your practice.

It's all about KNOW-LIKE-TRUST. People first have to know
you; they need to feel they know who you are and what you
stand for. Then they have to like you; they have to feel
that there is a connection between you and then through
this "liking-ness" finally, they have to be led to trust
you. Trust only comes by interacting with people over time.
So how will you develop this Know-Like-Trust thing?

First, you have to decide who you are and what makes you
special so people can get to know you. But people won't
know how special you are unless you either tell them or
they figure it out from talking with you. You can
communicate your uniqueness just by talking about your
interests and passions. In communication, when you tell
someone a fact about you, this empowers them to tell you a
fact about them. This exchange of personal information
grows into a conversation and into knowing. You can
also get people to know you through advertising. For
example, include your photo in your ads; tell about
yourself on your website, and include photos of your
family. But "getting to know you" is only the beginning.

Next, you have to get people to like you. This may be
difficult or easy for you, depending upon your personality.
People like people who:

Smile

Look them in the eye

Sincerely listen and respond

Evidence compassion

Say, "I like you"

If you're not now comfortable with the interpersonal thing,
you'll need to work on this. Practice smiling at people
and looking at them for a second or two. (Don't look too
long, or they'll think you're staring.) Learn to listen. A
very wise person once told me, "You learn nothing when you
talk, because you know what you're saying already. You
learn when you listen." And listen actively. Active
listening is the practice of paying close attention to a
speaker and asking questions to ensure full comprehension.
Active listening also helps promote a relationship, because
people like people who care enough to listen.

What about this "I like you" business? Well, the "world's
greatest salesman" (as attested to by none other than the
Guinness Book of World Records) is a guy named Joe Girard.
Joe sold used cars better than anyone else because he
understood the KLT principle, and worked on it every day.
He knew that people like people who say, "I like you." So
he would say this. But the trick, as he knew, is to mean
it. If you're not sincere in saying you like someone,
they'll know immediately and be turned off.

But knowing you and liking you are still not enough. You
must get people to trust you. The only way to gain trust
is over time. And trust is about two things:
professionalism and integrity. Your professionalism must
be evident everywhere in the community. Do you look like
an unshaven bum when you go to the store on a Sunday
morning? If you're the soccer coach, do you show up for
every practice prepared and enthusiastic? If you're on a
Rotary committee, do you pitch in and work hard?

It's also about integrity. The root of the word
"integrity" is "integer." If you remember your math, an
integer is a whole number. So integrity has to do with
wholeness. It means your whole life is unified; it means
what you say and what you do are in congruence. It also
implies completeness. Are you completely honest in your
dealings with clients? With vendors? With other
professionals in the community?

The sooner you get busy creating that personal marketing
plan, by working on the principles of Know-Like-Trust, the
faster you'll be able to gain patients when you start into
practice.


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Copyright 2007 Jean Wilson Murray, MBA, PhD.
Dr. Jean Murray has been advising small business owners
since 1974. As the founder of Planning for Practice
Success, she specializes in assisting health care
professionals with business plan construction and startup
details. She can help you gain the knowledge to act and the
confidence to begin. Learn more at

http://www.professionalpracticesuccess.com